IS IT WORTH IT

Falling in love is the most beautiful experience in human existence and everyone want it to be forever, until the last breath of their lives, they will end up together and dream of a perfect love story. 

It started a guy searching for the one and a woman waiting for a worthy man who brave enough to make her fall in love with him. But not every man and woman will end up forever, they say "no one is perfect, we make mistakes." In my opinion, everyone can be a perfect lover because as human as we are, we are capable of loving someone unconditionally but because of hurts and betrayal we limit ourselves to love and end up failing the relationship because we put a barrier not to fall in love to much. Afraid of many things inside your brain of "What if."  

They say love is a gamble, you never know what will come up, if you never try but they say if you never felt it so called GUT FEELING, just never push it 'cause it end up failing. I remember a quote from Mother Theresa, "God doesn't require us to succeed, He only requires us to try." God time is perfect, never late and never in advance, always exact time. In Ecclesiastes 3:1 "There is an appointed time for everything." 

God give us freedom, though He have plans for us but still we have a choice to follow or to abandon His will. Rushing to have relationship, even you knew that your not ready is a big no... no... You just want it for the sake to have a partner because your left behind. 

Having a relationship is a commitment, a decision, an obligation and it's not a game to play. Entering to that is a preparation to have a long lasting relationship and looking forward to be with that person for the rest of your life. If you feel that he is not the one for you and have doubts, why entering to a complicated situation?  People make things complicated because they keep it to themselves and the motto is, bahala na attitude. 

FEELING and LOVE are not the same because feeling will subside but love will last a lifetime. Everything started with feelings and attraction, it depend on you to nurture that feeling of commitment. It's like planting a tree, you invest your time to give water, to give light, to take care and it's your responsibility to make it beautiful and protect it from harmful elements. In that way the tree will bear a fruit. The fruit that will love you for real.